The Blogging Bae

Mercury Retrograde came and went...did you mark yourself safe or did you walk away slightly scathed? Did you make it through without incident or did you lose your shit a few times along the way?  From what I hear...more folks were in the tiny boat tipping over rather than on the luxurious cruise ship sailing by. And to that I say, Thank Goddess...I wasn’t the only one.  Life.  It will test you.  It will teach you.  It will break you.  It will force you to continue...even when you can’t muster the strength to make another step.  Cheers though.... Here’s to you and your chapters...tell your story. Always.  And don’t gloss over the gritty parts.  Don’t make excuses for falling or flying....because in order to fly...you most certainly have to crash land a few times...you have to learn how to manage the weather and maneuver the plane and those are great accomplishments. Be sad. Be proud. You’re allowed both not just one of the other.  My budd...

“Instead of worrying about what you cannot control, shift your energy to what you can create.”  ~Roy T. Bennet  I should seriously start calling this blog, “Dear Diary” because that’s what it’s turning into. Lol.  🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️ Can I just say something though?  Silly question...of course I can...it’s my blog and I do what I want with it and honestly who’s going to stop me!  So here it is...I HAVE BEEN IN THE WORST MOOD LATELY. Anyone else out there feeling the same way or am I swimming in this sea by myself?  If I’m alone in it....fine....I’ll deal....but can someone at least throw me a life raft. You don’t have to pull me in...let me float...just throw the flotation device as soon as possible. Please and Thank You.  I know I’ll get to that mirage of a shore eventually. I just need to stop and rest for a while.  I said this in my last post but it deserves to be stated again...FUCK THIS MERCURY RETROGRADE...February 21st can’t come soon eno...

I’m not really sure if it’s because we’re in the middle of a Mercury Retrograde or I’m just at my wits end with the inability to leave my damn house due to a pandemic or if it’s just today and humans from the past week in general getting under skin...but...truth. Thank goddess for my playlist and headphones because without either, someone would have already been set on fire. *Not really...I mean...I will pretend to set you on fire but no one nor anything is worth going to prison for.* What am I on about?  Oh I will tell you....just like I tell mostly everything...because these are my stories and this is my blog. It’s about real life and sometimes that life isn’t picture perfect. Besides it’s free therapy. At least one person can relate to what I am writing about and by me expressing my thoughts, maybe someone out there can sort through their own.  Ready set go!  Today’s topic....MARRIAGE !  Marriage is hard work. Anyone who says it isn’t...is fucking lying to you. I ...

  A few days ago a stranger came up to me and told me to look for the butterflies. At first, I was taken aback. For starters, I wasn’t sure she was talking to me or what but secondly, I wasn’t sure what she was talking about? Maybe under her mask, I misunderstood? So I looked behind me thinking she was telling me to go for a specific brand-given we were at the grocery store when this happened. She laughed and said...”No. You need to look for butterflies. You know the insect? They are symbols for you...and you need to pay attention when you spot them.” And then just like that she walked away.   I wish I could tell you this has been my first off the wall conversation that has occurred with a completely random stranger but it’s not. I’m used to these type of weird interactions happening to me all the time. I’m used to strangers coming up to me and passing along universal messages. I’m used to people I don’t know approaching me and telling me their life story which somehow relates...