43 And Counting
I just recently celebrated my 43rd year on this planet. It started off terribly but went better as the day progressed. I had one friend bail on dinner because she got drunk earlier in the day and ended up fighting with her husband and I had a few friends that I always make a point to say ‘happy birthday’ to completely ignore that it was mine. Which got me thinking... It's time once again to evaluate who deserves a spot in my life. Regardless, the day was good. I made it another year and my birthday was made even better by the weekend getaway that followed. At now 43, I'm taking stock of who actually has time for me. Not just a convenient time or when they need someone but as a whole. Sadly, I have been in this limbo for a minute... Weaving in and out on where exactly I stand. BECAUSE FRIENDSHIPS AND CONNECTIONS MEAN SOMETHING TO ME AND I NEVER WANT TO BE THE ONE TO SEVER ANY TIES. However, I have been handed scissors multiple times... Promptly discarding them rather th